Monday, May 14, 2007

Gotcha!

Well we tried a previous post but it didn't make it...our previous hotel didn't allow access to the posting site so we tried an email post, which I now see didn't make it in. It was saved as a draft so I will try to publish it after I finish this one. So now I will tell some things out of order. Also I can't get pictures in yet :-( but I will try at our next hotel in Guangzhou in a few days.

Yesterday afternoon we went to the local Office of Civil Affairs in Chongqing and met Faith! She is such a beuatiful little China doll, she looks just like her previous pictures except her hair is a bit longer now. She was standing quietly drinking a bottle, and she quickly warmed up to us. Now we have read that adoptive children often warm up to one parent first, often enough the father--which is what happened in our case. She immediately came to me (Brian) and essentially wouldn't let me leave her presence till she finally fell asleep in our hotel room about 9:00 PM! She warmed up to our kids too (especially McKenzie) and soon showed us how animated she can be. She giggles, plays, even hits when she's excited. We've seen her temper too, true enough to her age of 2 years. Some pleasant surprises: she can feed herself mostly (except she's not accustomed to western utensils yet), she is a very good nonverbal communicator, and--in some ways best of all--she's potty trained!! :-) We are having so much fun I can hardly describe it. It's also a relief to have our fees paid so we don't have to carry all that cash around... We even have Faith's Chinese passport; all the official business to do now is basically to get her paperwork from the U.S. Consulate in Guangzhou next week.

This week we are going to spend time visiting Chongqing, a municipality of 8 million in the city and totalling about 30 million in the "metro area" (about20 million are farmers). This is a bright shiny city that rivals Las Vegas in its nighttime color and is probably more flashy than anywhere in New York City.

Barbara has written a long journal entry that we'll have to enter later. Right now Faith is distracted by a Baby Einstein video so that I could leave the room for a bit. Today we are going to visit the local harbor, tomorrow visit the zoo and see baby pandas, and one day we hope to visit Faith's orphanage. Friday we travel to Guangzhou, our last city before leaving China.

Our impression is that things have gone as well as they possibly could--thanks for all your prayers. We feel we can relax a bit having the main part of the trip accomplished (actually meeting Faith finally).

Next post will probably be in about 48 hours. Sorry so late for this first real post from China.

Love, Brian and the fam.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thought I had posted, but didn't. I was so excited to read the excellent news and delicious tidbits! Checking frequently, rewarded greatly!

Robin C said...

WOW! How amazing that you all are there and having such an incredible experience! I am so happy for you all and Faith is certainly one VERY LUCKY little girl. Hope to get the opportunity to meet her one day when you all get back home! Stay safe...will check in frequently to see how things are going! My thoughts and prayers are with you all on your journey...take care.

Robin

Anonymous said...

I must say I wanted to cry just reading about little Faith not wanting you out of her sight. It's so great the time has finally come for this little girl's life to be forever changed. She has no idea what's in store for her...(such a wonderful new family)! I am so glad the trip is going well for you all.

Karen said...

We are so happy to get news! We have been constantly praying for you and miss you all. I am so glad to hear that meeting Faith went so well. We can’t wait to meet her. Looking forward to updates.
Karen and Family

Anonymous said...

Your family has certainly had an experience that most people will never have and you get to bring a precious little one home. It is so nice to hear that you have bonded and best of all (not having any children) Faith being Potty trained. One of those little things I have never had to deal with. Looking forward to having you all back and settling into your routine. Take care.

Annie

Unknown said...

So great to hear you have little Faith Baoben! Can't wait to hear more and see photos. It sounds like it's going really beautifully. Cherish every moment of this very special time as a family! Our love and prayers are with you - Heather